* [XPU] add transpose bridge and unit test

test=develop

[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* paddle lite cuda init
can run model with leaky_relu

* add the missing file.
test=develop

* add the load from memory interface.
test=develop

* refine this pr. fix comments
fix ci error
test=develop

* conv impl
fp32:
conv, conv+bais, conv+bias+relu, conv+bias+leaky_relu

int8:
conv, conv+bais+relu(int8 or fp32 output), conv+bias+leaky_relu(int8 or fp32 output)

can run conv+ bias+relu using cxx_api
test=develop

* move the lite/cuda/math to backends/cuda/math
test=develop