[cherry-pick] Fix build error caused by flatbuffer if the target is tiny_publish, and fix the missing of the attr name of the output scale (#4356)

* [LITE][XPU] 1. Add sequence_unpad kernel for XPU; 2. Bugfix in sequence_unpad kernel for x86, as InferShapeImpl() is now empty in lite/operators/sequence_unpad_op.cc; 3. Refine TargetWrapperXPU; (#4237)

* [Core] Fix the missing of the attr name of the output scale (#4334)

* [NPU] Fix build error caused by flatbuffer if the target is tiny_publish (#4340)
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Co-authored-by: NCwndmiao <miaotianxiang@baidu.com>

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* [Core][ARM] Fix beam_search, eltwise_mul supports broadcast and int64_t data type, add print op and kernel, add exeception
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* Fix the dims of parent idx of the arm kernel of beam_search op

* elementwise_mul supports int64_t data type with broadcasting

* Add print op and kernel for debugging

* Support throwing the exception when the internal error occurs

* Refine while and conditional_block op kernel

* Support the graph optimization on subblocks

* Pass program_desc and block_idx into the kernel of the control flow ops(while/conditional_block/subgraph), and create the RuntimeProgram online, it make it possiable to call the control flow ops recursively

*Add unit test for masked transformer model

* [NPU] apply npu cache offline model to other devices, test=develop

* [NPU] address review comments, test=develop

* Update quantization, scale save in op attrs by  <inputname_index, scale_value>, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nhong19860320 <9973393+hong19860320@users.noreply.github.com>

* reduce .so size. test=develop

* compile all targets when LITE_ON_TINY_PUBLISH=OFF

* unordered_map is more convenient when key is customized class

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