Currently drivers have to check if they already have a umem
installed for a given queue and return an error if so.  Make
better use of XDP_QUERY_XSK_UMEM and move this functionality
to the core.

We need to keep rtnl across the calls now.
Signed-off-by: NJakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: NQuentin Monnet <quentin.monnet@netronome.com>
Acked-by: NBjörn Töpel <bjorn.topel@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: NDavid S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>