* API/OP (Some SL API) error message enhancement  (#24441)

* polish some sl api error message, test=develop

* polish python input check of stride slice, test=develop

* fix unittest bugs, test=develop

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequ… (#24437)

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequence_erase, test=develop

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequence_erase, test=develop

* update modify, test=develop

* update modify, test=develop

* fixed some modifications, test=develop
Co-authored-by: NXing Wu <wuxing03@baidu.com>

enhanced ops: unsqueeze, squeeze2, strided_slice, unsqueeze,
unsqueeze2, var_conv_2d, spectral_norm, slice, match_matrix_tensor,
nce, pad, pad_constant_like, filter_by_instag

sequence_unpad, expand, pad, pad_constant_like,
norm, bilinear_tensor_product, flatten2, im2sequence,
unpool, cos_sim, strided_slice, flatten, elementwise_min,
abs, acos

test=develop

* fix PythonAPI test in Op unittest, test=develop
* fix unit tests that do not need to inherit OpTest, test=develop

* add support for __get_item__ of Variable test=develop

* add support tensor and tensorlist for strided_slice OP test=develop

* fix the commnet test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix the bug test=develop

* delete log test=develop

* fix API.spec test=develop

* fix test=develop

* strided_slice op basic function test=develop

* test=develop rewrite and fix

* fix bug test=develop

* fix for the PADDLE_ENFORCE usage

* add some unit testw

* fix for the aip  test and copright and fix test=develop

* fix API.spec test=develop

* fix API.spec test=develop

* add axis parameter test=develop

* fix for the build error test=develop

* fix python api  test=develop

* fix the build test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* fix API spec test=develop

* test=develop add some comment and single op test

* fix API spece test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix api test=develop

* fix api test=develop

* fix API.spec test=develop

* fix typo test=develop

* fix API.spec test=develop

* fix API typo test=develop

* fix doc and API.spec test=develop