* API/OP (Some SL API) error message enhancement  (#24441)

* polish some sl api error message, test=develop

* polish python input check of stride slice, test=develop

* fix unittest bugs, test=develop

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequ… (#24437)

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequence_erase, test=develop

* fix error info for transpose sequence_conv_pool max_sequence_len sequence_erase, test=develop

* update modify, test=develop

* update modify, test=develop

* fixed some modifications, test=develop
Co-authored-by: NXing Wu <wuxing03@baidu.com>

* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

Do not use ctor

* Reduce line of codes.
* We can use virtual function for Maker now.
* The implementation does not care what maker holds, it is easier to
refactor later.

* Fix CPPLint errors in operators

* Fix cast in softmax

* Fix softmax_mkldnn

* Fix send_recv_op_test

* Send_recv

* Fix softmax mkldnn