Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* fix the double grad bug for the star gan. test=develop

* update the retain_graph parameter doc. test=develop

* add the unit test for the retain_graph parameter. test=develop

* update ResetHolder, test=develop

* add TensorShare for lite engine, test=develop

* tensor data changed from copying to sharing, test=develop

* supports xpu runtime, test=develop

* fix code styles, test=develop

* add api to clear intemediate tensors in analysis predictor. test=develop

* add python api. test=develop

* fix bn & in in dy, test=develop

* update instance_norm,test=develop

* fix bugs,test=develop

* add more case in unittest,test=develop

* fix,test=develop

* fix,test=develop

* Modify tmp var name prefix in dygraph test=develop

* refine comment test=develop

* don't re-generate header file if content doesn't change. test=develop

* add copy_if_different function. test=develop

* Add a StatValue class in the backend to represent a stat.
* Add a singleton StatRegistry to maintain the collection of stats.
* For the sake of code neatness, we only support type of int and float, which can cover most of the scenarios.

* refine err_msg of pybind.cc, test=develop

* refine err_msg in tensor_py.h, test=develop

* refine error msg, test=develop

* fix test_exception, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* support selectedrows allreduce in multi-cards dygraph, test=develop

* remove useless import modules in unittests, test=develop

* add nccl cmake to get nccl version, test=develop

* add if-condition to compiled correctly, test=develop

* add detail version parseing for old nccl, test=develop

* polish camke details, test=develop

* fix remove test cmake error, test=develop

* fix cmake condition, test=develop

* change unittest camke list, test=develop

* fix unittest cmake rule, test=develop, test=framep0

* add amp_check_finite_and_scale op, test=develop

* add cpu kernel, test=develop

* use bool, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

* add crypto helper for paddle, test=develop

* cryptopp.cmake bug fixed, test=develop

* remove debug build type, test=develop

* fixed CMakeLists for new target, test=develop

* fix CI bug, test=develop

* add cmake option flag DWITH_CRYPTO, test=develop

* add crypto api for python, test=develop

* Revert "add crypto api for python, test=develop"

This reverts commit 3a1cfa9d.

* Revert "Add crypto api (#24694)"

This reverts commit 5a7a517c.

* Revert "Revert "Add crypto api (#24694)""

This reverts commit f952b19f.

* fixed cryptopp cmake building error, test=develop

* change WITH_CRYPTO building option to OFF, test=develop

* â€fixed cipher test failed, test=develop

* "add crypto api for python, test=develop"

This reverts commit 83fb55c0.

* travis CI bug fixed, test=develop

* fixed test in python3

* test=develop

* fixed unittest, test=develop

* Support AucRunner in PaddleBox
* update some code style

* fix bug of varbase.__getitem__, test=develop

* fix bug of float and other type, test=develop

* Add InitializeGPUAndLoadModel to solve random hang when downloading sparse parameters.
* Update SaveBase to solve test problem.

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* raise index error when slice out of range; test=develop

* add uni test; test=develop

* fix format error; test=develop

* add comment for py::index_error; test=develop

* polish error message; test=develop

* polish error message; test=develop

* solve mklml memory leak on windows

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* remove unused msvcr120.dll

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* add timeout and http store in communication, add revert and confirm in fleet
* test=develop

* update name generator, test=develop

* use c++ unique name generator, test=develop

Fix the dygraph mode in matmul, add the support in Linear Op

* add DataLoader, Dataset, BatchSampler

* Support LoDTEnsorArray in fetch op

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* add save with prefix
* test=develop