[Cherry-Pick]Add hard_swish/kron/linspace/logit/graph_send_recv/multi_dot/maxout/multiplex op yaml file  (#41566)

* [Phi]Add graph_send_recv yaml file (#41206)

* add graph_send_recv yaml

* deal with confict

* fix compile bugs

* cherry-pick pr 41298

* cherry-pick pr41550

* fix compile bugs

* add out_size shape for graph_send_recv

* fix bug in register kernel: no const int& support

* add out_size in infermeta

* change unittest

* fix unittest

* fix out_size default value

* fix doc

* delete arg mapping

* add sig

* move -1 to 0

* move -1 to 0

* [Phi] transfer old kernel to pten kernel for the graph_send_recv op

* update the code for the define of graph_send_recv

* fix the gradient problem for graph_send_recv

* fix the compile problem

* update the enfore message for the windows

* update the code for the compiler

* update compiler problem for the windows

* udpate the code for windows

* fix some format problem