* add use_cuda to inplace pass,test=develop

* add test softmax_with_xe_inplace test,test=develop

* fix cdn issue, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* remove add/sub_2 op, test=develop

* disable memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* disable inplace activation in python, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* bug-fix, test=develop

* Add intermediate

* fix flatten/squeeze/unsqueeze

* Considering compatibility issues, we could not fix the origin op

* follow comment

* reset the shape of XShape

* add flatten op