update expand as op to use the shape of the target tensor instead of the target tensor itself. (#29020)

* update, test=develop

align expand_as op to expand.

* add expand_as op, test=develop

* add expand_as op,test=develop

* add expand_as op,test=develop

* add nn.py, test=develop

* delele paddle_enforce, test=develop

1. add tensor support for argument expand_times in expand op;
2. add support parameter inference when argument expand_times is a list containing integer and tensor variable;

improve expand op according to reviews:
1. add doc of ExpandTimes in expand_op.cc;
2. improve the test of test_api.

add stop_gradient=True when attr(expand_times) is tensor Variable, change code examples.
test=develop,test=document_preview

* expand support tensor attribute; test=develop

* fix bug ; test=develop

* fix uni test bug; test=develop

* fix copy bug; test=develop

* refine expand_times default value; test=develop

test=develop

* Update tensor_util.h

* Update with moved TensorDesc

* Fix tensur_utils.cu

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Make tensor_util.cu a symbolic link

* Rename Tensor::CopyFrom to Tensor::Copy

* Fix CI

* Fix compile

There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`

* "make global tensor function independently"

* "replace functor"

* "fix inline template error"

* "fix tensor array with CopyFrom"

* "fix other case use CopyFrom"

* "move the op interface hardly"

* "fix operators"

* "fix typo"

* "delete dynamic recurrent rnn and fix gru_unit in debugmode"

* "fix unique_ptr copy"

* "fix cuda copy"

* "fix namespace error"

* "removed nccl python test"

* "fix include error"

* "fix typo"

* fix copy util test