* make tensor_util contains no cuda code

* refine isfinite

* revert ut

* move isfinite function to its op

* fix test

* fix compile

* std::isnan is not defined for int type on windows

* fix windows compile

* fix fp16

* fix rocm compile

* revert gradient node

* [phi] Split selected_rows CMake compilation

* move file back

* move file back

* support isfinite for phi

* mark v2

* fixed bugs

* fixed include bugs

* deal with comments

* decoupling selected_rows

* rm bfloat16

* fixed infermeta

* fixed code style

* rm useless code

* replace pt by pd