* modify custom op dependent from paddle_framework to paddle_custom_op (#31195)

* [Custom Op] Remove unsupport dtypes (#31232)

* remove remove_unsupport_dtype

* remove remove_unsupport_dtype

* remove test dtype

* add more include

* change dtype.h's enum as enum class to avoid conflict with inference lib

* make enum as enum class

* remove additional test

* merge develop

* polish code

* [Custom OP] Support stream set on Custom Op (#31257)

* [Custom OP] change the user header file format, test=develop (#31274)

* [Custom OP]add PD_THROW and PD_CHECK for User Error message (#31253)

* [Custom OP]add PD_THROW and PD_CHECK for User error message

* PD_THROW and PD_CHECK, fix comment

* fix Windows error message

* fix Windows error message

* fix CI

* [Custom OP]add MSVC compile check on Windows (#31265)

* fix test_check_abi
Co-authored-by: NZhou Wei <52485244+zhouwei25@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: NJiabin Yang <marsyang199376@gmail.com>
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[CustomOp] New custom operator extension mechanism in 2.0.1

Cherry-pick New custom operator basic implementation related PRs

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* use allow list instead of white list, test=develop

* reduce include, test=develop

* add unused input vars check for OpWithKernel, test=develop

* remove unused vars in some ops, test=develop

* fix batch_norm, test=develop

* add white list, test=develop

* add CI check for white list, test=develop

* :ove white list to c++, test=develop

* solve failure of CI, test=develop

* add unittest for unused_var_check, test=develop

* refine code, enable check in operator_test, test=develop

* skip mkldnn, test=develop

* extend white list, test=develop

* refine condition of mkldnn, test=develop

* fix paddle_build, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix GetExpectedKernelType

* add wiki ref to err_msg, test=develop

* follow comment, test=develop

* Fix CPPLint issues with data_type.h

* Fix CPPLint issues with feed_fetch_type.h

* Feed/Fetch op just plain operator, not a OpWithKernel
* Do not register OpInfoMaker since Feed/Fetch will never be
  configured by users
* Feed/Fetch op has empty gradient
* Feed/Fetch op do not hard code `feed_variable`, `fetch_variable` as
  its input and output, make it as a plain Operator input/output

* add NDEBUG switch to PADDLE_ENFORCE

* Free will be added soon