[Cherry-pick 2.0] Error message enhancement of conv2d_fusion and bugfix related to control nodes detecttion in fusion_group (#23985)

* Op(conv2d_fusion) error message enhancement. (#23596)
* Fix the error misjudgment when there are control nodes in graph. (#23943)

C++ OP enhancement.

error message enhancement for fusion_seqpool_concat_op

error message enhancement for py_func op. 

* refine fusion_transpose_flatten_concat_op log
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* fix ci error
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error message enhancement for repeated fc

* delete invalid check inferface Ref & VectorRef, test=develop

* fix vector ref delete error, test=develop

* try the new check inferface, test=develop

* change all related code with new check macro, test=develop

* remove static assert, test=develop

* polish detail, test=develop

* skip coverage problem, test=develop

* add new check macro, test=develop

* use global conv cache; test=develop

* use singleton cache; test=develop

* fix format error; test=develop

* add cudnn helper header; test=develop

* fix header error; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix file format; test=develop

* fix include file error, test=develop

* remove kernel_configs_ in class ExecutionContext and kernel_configs_map_ in class OperatorWithKernel, test=develop

* fix test_elementwise_mul_op_dim, test=develop

* fix compile error, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nphlrain <phliuhongyu@126.com>

This reverts commit 48144e40.

* use global conv cache; test=develop

* use singleton cache; test=develop

* fix format error; test=develop

* add cudnn helper header; test=develop

* fix header error; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix file format; test=develop

* fix include file error, test=develop

* remove kernel_configs_ in class ExecutionContext and kernel_configs_map_ in class OperatorWithKernel, test=develop

* fix test_elementwise_mul_op_dim, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nphlrain <phliuhongyu@126.com>

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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update embedding_eltwise_layernorm fuse pass and fused kernel, to support multi input

* add double grad implementation for dygraph, test=develop

* polish code, add uts, test=develop

* fix place bug, test=develop

* polish codes, add more uts for coverages, test=develop

* add no_grad_set, test=develop

* add star gan ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

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* add fusion group test for backward and refine code

* add support for expression type convert and add cast Op support in fusion group

* 1. add embedding eltwise layernorm fuse
2. add embedding eltwise layernorm op
3. refine inplace_add_relu
4. refine fc_eltwise_layernorm
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* 1. refine fc
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* fix comments
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* fix comments

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* refine grad maker, test=develop

* refactor tracer stage 1, test=develop

* merge develop to solve conflict third times, test=develop

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* 1. optim multihead matmul: fuse three fc to multihtead matmul

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* fix conflict
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* fix comments
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* add bn and relu fuse pass

* add op attr assert and dtype assert

* fix some inputs&&outputs bugs for the fused op and pattern.

* add the unittest for fuse_bn_act_pass. test=develop

* use normative enforce statements. test=develop

* add the cpu test. test=develop

* add the support of batch_size=1 for the bn with relu op. test=develop

* add the error type for paddle throws. test=develop

* add fused_batch_norm_act and fused_batch_norm_act_grad to op_has_unsed_vars_white_list. test=develop

windows conv_fusion failed as no kernel， explicit declare lambda
Signed-off-by: Nzhaoyuchen <zhaoyuchen01@baidu.com>

* Add the dynamic load of nvrtc, and support runtime compiling of CUDA kernel using nvrtc.
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* Call CUDA driver api to launch the kernel compiled by nvrtc.
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* Disable for mac and windows.
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* Refine the codes to support manually specified num_threads and workload_per_thread.
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* Refine the CUDA kernel to support large dims.
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* Add DeviceCodePool to manage all device codes.

* Add the first implementation fusion_group op.

* Add unit-test for fusion_group op.

* Add the check of result.

* Add the check of nvrtc in unit-test.
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* Add comment to explain the inputs, outputs and features of fusion_group op.
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* Disable fusion_group op for mac and windows.
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* Make the compiling of device code return status instead of hanging up.
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* Add the check of whether there is CUDA driver library, and do not core dump when failing to call the CUDA driver API.

* Unify fusion_group_op's input and output names.
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* Add the check of CUDA driver library in unittest.
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* Refine the calling of PADDLE_ENFORCE.
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* Refine multihead kernel, align block to 32

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Signed-off-by: Nzhaoyuchen <zhaoyuchen01@baidu.com>

* Refine log comments

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Signed-off-by: Nzhaoyuchen <zhaoyuchen01@baidu.com>

* Fix softmax cuda bug

* Refine multihead log and softmax logic

* polish infer shape registry, test=develop

* modify some operators registry, test=develop

* Add ascending for argsort

* Refine api doc description.

* Refine descending description

* Add int32 logic to speedup when data is small size.

* Remove int32 opt as not support in python

* add_dygraph_execution_context

* add dygraph infershape context and execution context; test=develop

* fix imperative bug; test=develop

* remove inputs outputs interface from execution context,
because it have same function with inputNames;
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* remove tracer_test ctest; test=develop

* fix split op bug; test=develop

* fix unitests bug; test=develop

* fix distribute test bug; test=develop

* fix ngraph compile bug; test=develop

* fix grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix load op bugs; test=develop

* fix operator.cc construct bug; test=develop

* remove useless name find in operator; test=develop

* add tracer_test; test=develop

* fix concat, split bug; test=develop

* remove tracer_test unitest; test=develop

* fix attribute check bug; test=develop

* add test code to fix converage; test=develop

* remove useless code, change check backward input in engin; test=develop

* unlock var type infer shape;test=develop

* add ShareAllLoD api; test=develop

* add dygraph infershape context unitest; test=develop

* remove increase and decrease lod in dygraph; test=develop

* addd override; test=develop

* fix increase descrease lod; test=develop

* fix paddle_enforce; test=develop

* disable lod op dygraph check; test=develop

* fix paddle enforce error; test=develop

* add comment for op_registry and OperatorBase; test=develop

* optimize the comment of op_registry; test=develop

* fix format of comment; test=develop

* fix format of comment; test=develop

* optimize the format of comment; test=develop

* optimize the format of the comment; test=develop

* optimize comment of op_registry; test=develop

* use system allocator in unittests, test=develop

* fix op bugs, test=develop

* fix tensor copy bug when src and dst are the same, test=develop

* remove -Wno-error=sign-compare, make warning as error

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* fix exist compile warning

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* Fix ernie pythoin infer diff
* Refine mask

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