heter context support dynamic mf dim

add hashtable dynamic mf support

add dynamic mf size api

add mem pool

* trainer_device fix and checknan tool for psgpu;test=develop

* disable show_one_table;test=develop

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update

* auc temp

* cuballocator

* code format

* code format

* add refrence

* format

* In cpu parallel using gloo, add various length support for SelectedRows

* fix bug

* fix bugs

* fix by code review

* remove timeout

* split into PreBuildTask and BuildPull; slove endpass bug;test=develop

* change buildcpu into prebuild and buildcpu into build;test=develop

* gloo hdfs set check & gloo connect retry

* add vlog

* print gloo connect addr & add vlog

* .

* modify vlof

* modify vlog

* modify vlog

* set file_num in one shard

* format

* Fix copy elision warning

* Remove redundand code

* merge dense

* log level

* tensor copy sync

* format

* replace boost::algorithm::ends_with with self define ends_with function

* remove BOOST macro in certain operators

* remove boost::lexical_cast

* add test for string_helper

* add more test case for string_helper

* modify join_string func and test case

* fix build_strategy_test failed bug

* remove string_helper_test from parallel_UT_rule.py

* psgpu:edit cuda remote_streams; test=develop

* pipeline adaptive for heterps;test=develop
* fix finalize hang;test=develop
* add is_compiled_with_heterps for dataset;test=develop
* fix hashtable core when pass ins_num=0;test=develop

* fix hdfs and fleet_util for supporting save/load infer;test=develop

* add retry in pull sparse

* retry

* pslib with cmake

* heter util

* vlog

* heter server test

* add dtor

* cmake

* Revert "Revert "[PsCore] optimize performance of large kv (#32535)" (#32599)"

This reverts commit 809ac036.

* brpc dep

This reverts commit 4b7242b0.

* optimize pull sparse

* optimize pull sparse

* change macro

* format