* cherry-pick of DeviceContext Split, test=develop (#23737)

* New feature: thread local allocator, test=develop (#23989)

* add the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* refactor the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* provides option setting strategy, test=develop

* add boost dependency to cuda_stream, test=develop

* declare the stream::Priority as enum class, test=develop

* deal with PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS macro in pr #23816

* add lodtensor share memory & serialization, test=develop

* fix windows compile error, test=develop

* deal vartype pickle & fix unittest matching error message, test=develop

* update timeout variable name, test=develop

* refactor memory map implement, test=develop

* clear mmap file discripter when exit unexpectedly, test=develop

* remove the child process fd in advance, test=develop

* remove mmap fds after Queue.put in child process, test=develop

* add hard unittests for register exit func, test=develop

* fix python2 compatibility problem in unittest, test=develop

* fix exception unittest error, test=develop

* polish code based review comment, test=develop

* add some debug flags to auto growth allocator, test=develop

* add comments about auto growth, test=develop

TemporaryAllocator is a singleton used for allocating memory for Cudnn. Since it is a singleton, we can delete it for better performance in memory.

We replace TemporaryAllocator by CUDADeviceContextAllocator and CUDADeviceContextAllocation, which uses stream callback to delete the memory allocated for the stream to avoid singleton.

Also added data_feed_proto to operator to fix CI in CPU compilation

* add retry_allocator for gpu, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* change f,l in enforce.h to be file,line, test=develop

* increase code coverage by adding unittests, test=develop

* fix CMakeLists.txt, test=develop

* feature/auto_growth_allocator, test=develop

* add unittest of AlignedAllocator, test=develop

* try to turn on auto_growth to test on CI, test=develop

* fix segmentation fault in mixed_vector.h, test=develop

* add unittests, test=develop

* Revert "Revert "Fix allocator bug""

This reverts commit 174d0d0b.

* Revert "fix travis ci"

This reverts commit 5656fa9f.

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* add inlined_vector.h, test=develop

* add inlined_vector_test,test=develop

* clean code of allocator,test=develop

* delete zero_size_allocator.h,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* Revert "Revert "Fix allocator bug""

This reverts commit 174d0d0b.

* Revert "fix travis ci"

This reverts commit 5656fa9f.

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* add inlined_vector.h, test=develop

* add inlined_vector_test,test=develop

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add include headers to fix travis-ci
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modify allocator strategy
remove changes of legacy buddy_allocator
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Clean managed/umnamaged allocator

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remove Free() method in UnmanagedAllocator

add unittest of retry_allocator

Use OO style to rewrite memory allocation.