* cherry-pick,Optimize the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* fix the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* Refactoring PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS, and apply to curand/cudnn/cublas/NCCL

* remove build_ex_string

* delete invalid check inferface Ref & VectorRef, test=develop

* fix vector ref delete error, test=develop

* try the new check inferface, test=develop

* change all related code with new check macro, test=develop

* remove static assert, test=develop

* polish detail, test=develop

* skip coverage problem, test=develop

* add new check macro, test=develop

* add op inout check macro, test=develop

* fix enforce_test, test=develop

* reproduce match error, test=develop, test=document_fix

* fix mismatch error, test=develop, test=document_fix

cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* fix -Wno-error=sign-compare warning in gcc8

test=develop

* fix warning in distributed codes

test=develop

* Enrich the type of error and declare the error type interfaces, test=develop

* adjust tests to adapt new form, test=develop

* add inference deps with error_codes.pb.h, test=develop

* restore stack iter start pos, test=develop

* polish code based review comments, test=develop

* add support to gcc8, add docker env test=develop

* shape and optimize paddle error message stack, test=develop

* limit exception type & add unittest, test=develop

* fix multi-platform problem, test=develop

* fix related unnitest failed, test=develop

* add doc & fix unittest errors, test=develop

* fix function name error, test=develop

* update tensor test exception msg compare, test=develop

* remove unittest on win32, the dir format is different, test=develop

* remove useless package, test=develop

* add paddle enforce handler unittest, test=develop

* add exception checkout, test=develop

* fix coverage failed, test=develop

* fix op registry test failed, test=develop

* refactor whole pr, test=develop

* remove test in CMakelist, test=develop

* fix coverage, test=develop

* make PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ support cannot to string types, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments, test=develop

* fix warnings

test=develop

* fix enforce test

test=develop

test=develop

2. Add unit test for new enforce feature

test=develop

* Make `PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ` supports custom class, like DDim

* fix some enforce

* remove compatible_type to avoid compile error

* remove shared_ptr

* fix tensor error msg

* Use EnforceNotMet to unify all exception types.

ISSUE=4586495

git-svn-id: https://svn.baidu.com/idl/trunk/paddle@1408 1ad973e4-5ce8-4261-8a94-b56d1f490c56