[Phi]Separate AddKernel/DivideKernel/SubtractKernel/MultiplyKernel from ElementwiseKernel（Part1） (#41806)

* seperate add/div/sub/mul from elementwise

* delete code

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix bugs when compile

* fix windows unit test bug

* fix ci converage bugs

* [Phi]Fix beta1_pow/beta2_pow/skip_update data transform problem in adam/adamw

* fix xpu unittest failed

* Add yaml config

* Add yaml for flatten_contiguous_range_op

* Remove h_sigmoid yaml

* Fix CI errors

* Fix code format

* Fix flatten OP errors

* Fix conflicts

* Fix CI errors

* Remove flatten_contiguous_range OP

* Remove redundant code

* Fix typos

* move clip op to phi

* fix as review

* update hierarchical_sigmoid_kernel.cc

* update selected_rows

* update clip_kernel.cu

* fix as review

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

This reverts commit 05f3d48e.

This reverts commit e77a947e.

* update

* add forward case

* update

* update; test=develop

* add some grad kernel; test=develop

* move gpu kernel; test=develop

* update

* update;

* update test;

* fix selected rows bug;

* add mix vector include ;

* add mixed vector depen; test=develop

* add logit grad signature;

* polish code

* fix bug;

* add namespace for abs

* revert code

* not move softsign

* revmove duplate register;

* fix softsign bug

* polish code

* format

* format

* fix bug

* remove cmake dep

* add square sqrt selected rows support

* update

* remove clip norm

* add standalone executor sqrt dep

* standalone exec denp sqrt

* remove sqrt op in cmkaelist

* open some case

* [Phi] Migrate Adam and Adamw into Phi

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix undefined reference to fLI::FLAGS

* test depend on operator

* fix cmake

* fix xpu compile

* fix infrt

* fix amp_type_traits

* fix amp_type_traits

* modify according reviewer

* modify according reviewer

* fix dtype float16

* fix typo

* fix Cmake

* fix code style

* [phi] Split selected_rows CMake compilation

* move file back

* move file back

* first commit

* fix compile error

* support std::vector<std::srting>

* fix

* fix op support on GPU by chenweihang

* pass test

* infershape

* add set_dtype

* fix order

* fix

* unify the impl of dt and sr

* fix

* move assign kernel init commit

* change vec<tensor> to vec<tensor*>

* support tensor array

* support api declare

* fix test_list failed

* fix npu and xpu failed

* fix infrt failed

* remove assign array size in operator

* move assign sr header into sr dir

* add infermeta for assign

* test op success

* fix test_list failed

* fix kunlun failed

* add set host allocator in tests

* support tensor array in arg ctx

* open set layout in share_meta

* fix meta tensor layout error

* fix test failed

* fix copy_ problem by doing it with phi copy

* improve test coverage

* refactor copy with sr kernel

* [phi] move matrix_power op

* MatrixInverse fluid -> phi

* modify the CMake to fix compile bug

* delete useless comment

* mutable memory -> phi Alloc

* modify the include file

* modify the include file

* fix bug in CI compiler

* [phi]modify the shape OP and move inferMeta of shape,matrix_pow,multi_dot

* delete useless comment

* fix bug in CI

* modify after review

* add selected row op and fix bug in ctest

* modify the date

* fix bug in npu and xpu

* modfiy the include file

* support isfinite for phi

* mark v2

* fixed bugs

* fixed include bugs

* deal with comments

* decoupling selected_rows

* rm bfloat16

* fixed infermeta

* fixed code style

* rm useless code

* replace pt by pd

* move selected_rows kernel head to selected_rows dir

* update license

* add sr namespace

* refacter selected_rows kernel funciton name

* fix bug

* move uniform_random to phi

* fit selected_rows

* replace mutable_data

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed