PR主要功能：针对fusion等子图替换场景，支持Python侧开发并注册Pass。

背景
Pass是指输入一个深度学习计算图Graph，依照一定条件进行修改，输出修改后的Graph的过程；
当前PaddlePadle框架编写Pass代码存在以下问题：
用户需要手写Graph的条件匹配、在Graph上的修改代码；
对Graph操作需要深入底层框架代码，了解Graph的结构，并且知道相关Pass写法；
我们提出了针对fusion等子图替换类Pass的优化方案以支持用户在Python侧开发注册Pass，提升二次开发体验：
用户只需要输入匹配和替换的子图描述，由深度学习框架编写的代码来生成匹配和替换的逻辑，不需要用户对Graph进行匹配和替换操作；
API级别的替换，用户可以通过Paddle的Python API构造子图，从而不需要知道Graph的结构，也能写Paddle的Graph Pass代码

* add inplace logic into new_executor, test=develop

* check shape and add inplace FLAGS, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* clip op extra information when export model,test=ocr

* rename clip_extra parameter to kwargs in save_inference_model, test=ocr

* add dropout convert test

* modify dropout convert test
Co-authored-by: Nxiaoxiaohehe001 <hiteezsf@163.com>

Intergrate StandaloneExecutor in Static.Executor Interface with FLAGS_USE_STANDALONE_EXECUTOR (#35628)

* Intergrate StandaloneExecutor in Static.Executor Interface with FLAGS_USE_STANDALONE_EXECUTOR

* Enhance unittest and clean code in StandaloneExecutor

* polish unittest

* refactor gc, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* gc each tensor, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add test_cumprod_op

* Revert "add test_cumprod_op"

This reverts commit c96cf6dff5d09ae7d8cc72c1e8ae4369a153aa19.

* recommit

* add error message

* test input(x) initialize

* test use cpu

* update test code

* add test type

* add test case

* solve ci problem

* add complex case test

* add complex case test

* fix review problem

* fix conflict

* fix some docs

* change test case

* change test case

* fix review problems again

* fix docs

* fix inclusivescan bug

* import ska flat_hash_map

* add define NOMINMAX macro to fix windows build failed bug

* add brackets to std::max in flat_hash_map

* move flat_hash_map directions

* modify namespace to paddle

* modify namespace to paddle

* modify namespace to paddle

* modify namespace to paddle

* rm not used map.h and replace with op_info

* add auto_parallel dir

* mv to paddle.distributed

* add shard_xx api

* add distributed attrs for var

* add ut, test=develop

* add dist

* update

* update

* update

* update

* update

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update

* update

* update

* update

* update

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update

* update

* delete unused proto

* resotre op_desc

* restore type_defs

* update var_desc

* remove dimss_mapping for proto_pybind

* update interface.py

* update framework.py

* update

* update

* add auto_parallel dir

* mv to paddle.distributed

* add shard_xx api

* add distributed attrs for var

* add ut, test=develop

* [WIP] Add the auto completion feature and related codes

* [WIP] Improve the auto completion and related codes

* [WIP] Make the auto completion to support data-parallel

* [WIP] Make the completion support mp and dp+mp

* [WIP] Refactor auto completion unit test for MLP

* [WIP] Refactor the implementation of DistributedOperatorImpl

* [WIP] Improve dims_mapping update rule and fix a bug

* [WIP] Support auto completion for one transformer decoder layer

* [WIP] Add a minor change

* [WIP] Fix a bug within the uint test

* Shard XShape tensor, add embedding completion and refactor code

* Add the distributed_operators dir to setup.py.in

* Improve the completion process and add the unittest for gpt

* fix process_mesh ut

* fix process_mesh ut

* update

* update, test=develop

* Add support for automatically completing distributed attrs of special ops

* update

* update

* update

* fix doc sample codes, test=develop

* improve coverage, test=develop

* add static_mode check, test=develop

* Model the cluster for cost model and physical mapping

* update, test=develop

* add set_placement, test=develop

* Add the check to make sure the candidate tensors' size is great than zero

* update doc, test=develop

* update doc, test=develop

* update doc, test=develop

* update doc, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* Auto mark dist attrs annotated by user

* update ndarray to nested list, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* Add auto-completion module for auto-parallel (based on PR#33804)

* Remove unnecessary files

* Remove unrelated files for the auto completion pr

* Update the unit test to improve the coverage

* Modify codes based on reviews

* Minor changes for CI

* Improve some codes based on new comments

* Fix bugs caused by shallow copy in attributes.py
* Imporve amend_distributed_attr_for_program in context.py
* Other changes for weihang's comments

* support shard reader

* support shard reader

* add parallel mode

* update process mesh

* add method to compute comm_group

* implement dist_embedding forward func

* implement dist matmul forward func

* implement dist reshape forward func

* add transpiler framework

* add transpiler forward

* implement transpiler forward

* implement transpiler backward & update

* add process

* add unitest

* chmod

* chmod

* chmod

* update unitest

* add unitest for gpt

* remove unused print

* rename transpiler --> partitioner

* rename transpiler --> partitioner

* chmod

* chmod

* bug fixed

* remove amp function

* update case for dp mode

* update case for dp mode

* [Auto Parallel] Integrate all parts with the newest code

* Integrate all parts of auto parallel and improve codes

* Integrate all parts by AutoParallelizer
* Add unit test for AutoParallelizer
* Improve auto completion module for pipeline parallel
* Add support for matmul_v2 in dist_matmul
* Correct the typo "stratergy" to "strategy"

* Modify distributed_strategy.proto to conform the main stream

* Restore parts of distributed_strategy to conform the develop branch
Co-authored-by: Nsandyhouse <lilong12@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NJZ-LIANG <jianzhongliang10@gmail.com>

* refactor new executor, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add fleet api for program pass

* turn on apply pass for CI test

* fix disable fuse_all_optimizer bug

* try to test ci

* fix CI

* fill unspecified op role

* fix fuse_allreduce

* add ut to improve coverage

* remove useless change

* improve c++ coverage

* follow some comments

* test ir pass pipeline

* update doc

* reduce ut time again

* Split Tracker and WorkQueue

* add WorkQueueGroup

* add unittest

* fix

* update

* update

* fix compile

* Add fusion_lstm INT8 PTQ

* Correct mkldnn_cache_capacity and enable fc_lstm_fuse_pass only for this test

* Change mkldnn_cache_capacity

* modify gc logic, use new device_event, test=develop

* use GenerateDeviceEventFlag, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* fix test_standalone_executor.py, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* merge dense

* log level

* tensor copy sync

* format

* add cache for send_recv

* add eval_batch for pipeline

* add eval batch for pipelineparallel

* add style code

* modify fetch logic, use D2H Stream, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* support KL label smooth

* update UT for KL label_smooth

* polish code

* fix unittest on windows

* refine pybind interface

* support statistic MemSize of AllocatorPool

* Replace mutex into atomic

* update ernie int8

* Abstract GenerateDeviceEventFlag to shield platforms

* Remove get_cuda_flags

* Add calculation for gru op

* Correct the types

* Remove mkldnn only

* Correct mkldnn ifdef

* Remove mkldnn ifdef

* Separate mkldnn quantizer test

* Correct Windows test

* Check different cmake fix

* Revert cmake change

* Cmake change 2

* Cmake change 3

* add CPUDeiveEvent

* Polish DeviceEvent code

* Add DEVICE_EVENT_LIBS

* gc for newexecutor, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add interpretercore_gc_helper.h,test=develop

* backup

* gc whit thread and device_event, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add CheckGC, test=develop

* Modify into QueueSync QueueAsync

* fix complie on MacOS

* fix pointer

* fix conflict

* polish unittest

* fix windows fetch error

* polish code according reviewer

* fix device_guard on CPU place