set default python3,fix incompatible,cache dir for third party,unify error code,for windows (#26178)

* set default python3 for paddle windows,test=win

* set default python3,cache dir for third party,error code,test=win

* fix some incompatible

* fix some error

* set virtual environment,test=win

* add unittest for paddlerolemaker with gloo

* Fix inference bug

* fix inference lib

* Fixed compile warning about incorrect compile options,fix paddle_build.bat

* fix paddle_build.bat to more safe

* add fleetrun command for distributed running; test=develop

* add ci check for changing op-related api without core.ops, test=develop

* generate api_source_md5 file when build, test=develop

* add failed example, test=develop

* add failed example, test=develop

* handle exception, test=develop

windows CI scripts for xly

* add reinforcement learning model test=develop

* align backward test=develop

* add gym in paddle_build.sh test=develop

* rm pip install in script test=develop

* refine paddle_build.sh test=develop

* fix sed error in macOS test=develop

* polish code test=develop

* windows publish package scripts,test=develop

* windows publish package scripts,test=develop

* windows publish package scripts,test=develop

* Merge hapi into Paddle

Hapi is a high level API for training and inference.
The main modules include Model, Loss, Metrics, Dataset.
Also includes common modules and models in NLP and computer vision, such as BERT, ResNet.

These modules are developed by:
0YuanZhang0, guoshengCS heavengate, LielinJiang, qingqing01, xyzhou-puck huangjun12, wangxiao1021, zhangyang.

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