* move extension into pten [no-verify]

* append tensor methods by ext_tensor [no-verify]

* append other tensor methods [no-verify]

* ext related files tidy [no-verify]

* include relation tidy [no-verify]

* add pten tensor test [no-verify]

* replace tensor in custom op & compile success

* refine tensor constructor for unittest

* custom relu jit run success

* fix all custom op unittests

* add inference cmake adapt [no-verify]

* fix failed unittests

* fix windows failed unittests

* try to fix kunlun and inference failed

* fix test_elementwise_api error

* try to fix win compile failed

* fix kunlun fp16 type error

* remove useless haddle error macro

* add custom linear op test

* fix compile failed & add win symbols

* fix non pten kernel cast failed

* add dll decl for api

* polish several deetails

* polish details by review comment

* add dll_decl for register

* elementwise_add kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs in elementwise_add refactor

* fix compile bugs when run in npu/xpu

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run ci-windows

* modify code as recommended

* code format adjust

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bug when run in ci-windwos

* organize pten unitests

* fix detail errors