fix row_conv_op to force it support lodtensor and tensor input simultaneously, test=develop (#19412)

Support Tensor input for row_conv_op

* fix __shfl_down_sync_ of cross_entropy

* use reduceSum

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* "fix long type template error"

* "pybind reorder to use Place"

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There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`

* Fix documentation

* Address review comments