* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
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* fix dynamic shape test ut
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* fix comments.
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* fix comments
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* add hard_sigmoid trt op converter

* add hard_swish op converter and plugin. test=develop

* add macro to adapt lower trt version. test=develop

* add elementwise pool2d, prelu, shuffle channel
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* add scale and refine concat eltwise conveter
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* refine elementwise converter
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* refine ut test and enforce error.
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* modify const cast
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Revert "[Paddle-TRT] Add hard_sigmoid and hard_swish support(support MobilenetV3) (#23536)", test=develop (#23642)

This reverts commit cdc6d4e2.

* add hard_sigmoid trt op converter

* add hard_swish op converter and plugin. test=develop

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11 (#22164)

* add TRT support for instance_norm op

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt

* update paddle-trt for:
    1. fix bug: when batch > 2, core in split plugin.
    2. add leaky_relu trt5.0 support (yolov3 from 65ms to 42ms.)
    3. add new attr to dropout.
    4. shuffle channel, swish, relu6 support
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* 1. fix ci
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ban all trt ut. will fix it later.

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* Initialize the elementwise plugin.

* Implement the basic CUDA kernel of elementwise plugin.
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* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop