* Create Tensor by paddle::empty  in custom operator (#41840)

* create tensor by empty in custom op

* fix some bug

* update relu custom op demo (#43173)

* Fix incompatible error for custom op Placetype (#43749)

* fix incompatible error

* rmeove default constructor

* add macro

* fix cpu make error

* add DefaultGPUPlace api
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