* Update paddle_build.bat to remove op grad when build windows inference lib (#33800)

1. check status of remove op grad shell scripts
2. Update paddle_build.bat to remove op grad when build windows inference lib
3. add inference demo test after build finish

* Update paddle_build.sh for remove op grad when compile c++ inference lib (#33798)

* fix zip inference library bug (#34025)
Co-authored-by: Zhou Wei <1183042833@qq.com>