* elementwise_add kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs in elementwise_add refactor

* fix compile bugs when run in npu/xpu

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run ci-windows

* modify code as recommended

* code format adjust

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bug when run in ci-windwos

* elementwise_sub refactor

* add PD_DLL_DECL for elementwise_sub

* fix bugs when compilei