enforce test_parallel_executor_transformer and test_image_classification_resnet to run in serial (#12545)

* get diff for all changes in current branch

* diff with upstream/develop

* let dist test serial

* 1. Remove PYTHON_FLAGS from paddle_build.sh in paddlepaddle/paddle:latest-dev

* 1. Add PYTHON_FLAGS back
2. Change SIGKILL to SIGINT and SIGTERM

* 1. Add setup.py.in back

* 1. add pip install open-cv in Dockerfile to avoid libusb_exit hanging up which is caused by the opencv-python package missing

* 1. Add the && \ to line above

* 1. Remove the notice comment

* 1. implement StopAll in ListenAndServOp
2. make pserver receive the SIGINT and SIGTERM from outside
3. add unittests for listen_and_serv_op in python

* 1. add blocking queue set to record queue
2. aware all blocking queue when exit and exit gracefully

* 1. Remove comment lines from blocking_queue.h
2. Implement SignalHandler and move all global vars and funcs into it

* 1. Make code follows the style check
2. Move the SignalHandler out of the unnamed namespace

* 1. Make yapf happy

* 1. Call Stop() in destructor to release the resource allocated by ListendAndServOp
2. Change exit status to EXIT_SUCCESS after handling the signal from outside
3. Remove the mis-usage of REMOVE_ITEM in unittests

* 1. use DISABLE_COPY_AND_ASSIGN
2. use program once macro only

Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.