[Phi]Separate AddKernel/DivideKernel/SubtractKernel/MultiplyKernel from ElementwiseKernel（Part1） (#41806)

* seperate add/div/sub/mul from elementwise

* delete code

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix bugs when compile

* fix windows unit test bug

* fix ci converage bugs

* split reduce_kernel

* rm reduce_kernel in cmake

* split reduce_grad kernels

* fix cmake build error

* format code

* fix standalone_executor_test error

* support pinned, test=develop

* support async_write, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine,test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add string tensor and case convert kernels

* Add strings empty kernel; Reorganize the structure of case convert kernel

* Add string infermeta

* Update mutable_data of string tensor

* rename kernel name

* add string copy tmp

* Fix strings copy device bug

* add utf8 gpu converter

* add string tensor c++ api

* Remove mutable_data of string tensor

* update string tensor interface

* remove charcases_flag.h

* remove some fluid headers

* Add make_ddim

* __HIPCC__ -> PADDLE_WITH_HIP

* remove fluid headers

* fix cpu compile

* remove std::hash

* Fix cudaMalloc

* Remove strings/impl directory

* Fix infrt/get_phi_kernel_info.py;Add custom_kernels deps

* Add empty kernel test

* Remove some comments

* Modify lower/upper api encoding type: string->bool

* STRING->PSTRING; Add CreateInferLikeMeta

* Add code gen for C++ String API

* remove strings_api_utils.h

* Add ignore file (strings_api.h, strings_api.cc)

* update strings gen script

* change args order of case convert kernels

* Add comments for pstring, StringTensor

* cpstring_internal.h -> cpstring_impl.h

* Update accordding to comments:

1. Remove fluid headers
2. paddle::platform::errors -> phi::errors
3. Use 'place.GetType() == phi::AllocationType::GPU' instead of 'paddle::platform::is_cpu_space()'
4. Use camel code style

* Remove all singletons in strings kernels

* fix rocm compile

* Fix py3 compile

* Fix c++ coverage

* 1. Add pstring proto type
2. Add StringTensor debug info
3. Rename case_convert_kernel to strings_lower_upper
4. Remove serialize derialize strings kernel

* DataLayout::PSTRING -> DataLayout::PSTRING_UNION

* Register pstring data type

* Fix strings api gen

* Fix dense tensor register pstring dtype

* Fix error messages

* remove line

* add pstring unittest

* remove test string api unitest

* remove empty line

* Remove some headers to decrease the size of executable file

sparse maxpool; kernel_registry support sparse tensor

* move assign kernel init commit

* change vec<tensor> to vec<tensor*>

* support tensor array

* support api declare

* fix test_list failed

* fix npu and xpu failed

* fix infrt failed

* remove assign array size in operator

* move assign sr header into sr dir

* add infermeta for assign

* test op success

* fix test_list failed

* fix kunlun failed

* add set host allocator in tests

* support tensor array in arg ctx

* open set layout in share_meta

* fix meta tensor layout error

* fix test failed

restructure conv

* move reduce kernels into one file

* rename reduce_prod to prod

* move reduce sum/mean from math_kernel into reduce_kernel

* rm comment

submanifold convolution

Sparse conv3d backward(gpu)

* remove storage deps of empty

* remove invalid empty method

* remove error empty using

* fix test_sparse_utils_dev_api

* revert some sparse change

* add memset for conv grad

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

move cpu_vec.h to phi/kernels/funcs.

* change input vec tensor to pointer

* update input between

* fix format error

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* sparse conv3d: gpu code

Sparse Conv3d backward code

* fix incorrect dims settings

* sparse conv3d

* fix out dims

* test performance

* test large shape success

* opt scatter, double performance

* test float16

* remove profiling code

* remove pten

* opt code lines

* correct boundary judgment

* only cpu

* test ci

* test ci

* remove the including paddle/fluid header; extract the conmmon function

* opt code lines

* use DenseTensor::data() instead of mutable_data

* return rulebook for backward

* specify layout

* rename:conv -> sparse_conv3d

* remove empty kernel in fluid and adjust the param of empty dev_api

* polish code

* revert fluid empty kernel

* remove SetAllocationForOutputTenosr

* add place param for copy kernel

* recover SetAllocationForOutputTenosr

* polish code

* fix empty_dev api bug

* test=allcases

* test=allcases

* fix bug

* recover empty

* recover modify

* Support custom implement for C++ API

* rename api_invoke_impl to api_custom_impl

* remove manual_api

* delete mutable_data in copy_to api

* fix problem of copy_to

* add unittest for infer_meta_fn_factory

* fix split cofig in yaml

* fix split cofig in yaml

* modify sum api yaml

* add copy_to wrapped infermeta

* rollback copy impl

* rename pten to phi

* fix infrt compile failed

* resolve conflict

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed