FIx C++ inference BUG: When open memory optim and enable trt subgraph at the same time, there is a bug (#19969)

* fix memory optimization type
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* 1. fix BUG: open trt and memory optim will trigger bug.
2. Clean memory optim bug.
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* fix mask rcnn bug:
1. affine channel fuse (diff)
2. condition block op (memory leak)
3. merge lod tensor op (diff)
4. memroy optim (diff)
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* fix ci aboud PADDLE_ENFOCE
fix merge lod infer op ut
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* Fix Mask rcnn predictor
    1. refine memory optim algorithm to support the model with the block op.
    2. output diff : modify the affine channel fuse
    3. add condition_block_infer op
add interface for setting trt calib table dir
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* add the missing files.
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* fix: when use the load model from memory mode, the RAM occupy is high

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* ligth mem reuse
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* fix cpplint
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* add set_not_owned function for graph

* add scope set. test=develop

* add scope_ptr enforce not null before setting.test=develop

1. infernce multi card occupy
2. facebox model inference occupy too much
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refine trt first run
add quant dequant fuse pass
omit simplify_anakin_priorbox_detection template
omit transpose_flatten_concat_fuse template
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* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
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* Polish code
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* Fix Travis CI
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* fix Pass::Apply interface
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* Fix Travis CI
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size_t is an unsigned integer, with a conversion rank
 larger than int, therefore in the following expression
 the int value was promoted to size_t, making it a
 subtraction of unsigned values. The result of such
 a subtraction is also an unsigned value.

1. graph and program_desc alignment
2. trt stream

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* Initialize the elementwise plugin.

* Implement the basic CUDA kernel of elementwise plugin.
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the parameters will load from CPUPlace, that will keep copying data
between CPU and GPU places.

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