* refine cmake of framework

* add deps for dense tensor

* fix deps

* remove alloc(ctx)

* add depends on mkldnn

* move check finite and unscale kernel into phi

* move infershape into phi

* move update_loss_scaling kernel into phi

* remove original kernels

* move update loss scaling infershape into phi

* add header for xpu and npu

* solve coverage failed

* fix npu test failed

* remove mutable data in cu file

* fix new executor failed

* add valid check for meta tensor output