* Fix sparse training for trainer_count=1

For trainer_count=1, the gradient machine is NeuralNetwork, which does not create parameter buf for PARAMETER_GRADIENT for sparse update in Parameter::enableType. But gradient parameter buf is still used in SgdThreadUpdater.

* Minor update to comment

This bug occasionally causes dead lock in test_RecurrentGradientMachine
In general, conditional_variable::notify should be used together with mutex for changing condition.

ISSUE=4586495

git-svn-id: https://svn.baidu.com/idl/trunk/paddle@1408 1ad973e4-5ce8-4261-8a94-b56d1f490c56