[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

* add parallel build script to ci test=develop
* 1. classify the test case as single card/two cards/multiple cards type
   2. run test case according to the run type

test=develop

* Add USE_OP of all operators and kernels and remove ARCHIVE_START/END in CMakeLists.txt of inference unittests.

* Remove ARCHIVE_START/END when linking inference shared library.

* Disable some fluid related cmake operations for cross-compiling.

* Add unit-test and example

* Fix type error

* Fix unit test cases

* Fix init error for cudaplace

* Change unit-test options

* initial commit

* fix bug

* end of file fix

* address comments

* initial commit

* minor fix

* remove redundency

* address comments

* Save the inference model in Python example of recommender_system.

* Add infer() in Python unittest recommender_system.

* Add C++ inference unittest of recommender_system.

* set up python code

* fix bug

* add cc file

* fix cmake

* add inference test for label semantic role

* fix

* address comments

* address comments

* address comments

* address comments

* add use_cuda

* First basic implementation

* Add infer example for image_classification

* Address review comments: round 1

Enable whole-archive flag in cc_test and use cc_test to rewrite the CMakeLists.txt of inference unittest.