resort .cu headers, set clang-format not sort include block and consider .cu as main source file (#43633)

* migrate multiplex op kernel

* migrate qr cpu kernel

* migrate tril_triu op kernel

* fix multiplex kernel

* add kernel sig

* fix dependence and bug

* fix multiplex error

* fix npu include error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict and delete tril_triu

* fix date and multiplex input

* adapt header file order

* fix header file include

* fix conflict

* delete cholesky_solve_op.h

* delete triangular_solve_op.h