* [Phi] Support setting size of vector<Tensor> for out in yaml (#41576)

* support setting vector out size in yaml

* support setting size of vector<tensor> for out in yaml

* resolve conflict
Co-authored-by: Nzyfncg <zhangyunfei07@baidu.com>

* add interploate cpu kernel

* fix nullptr bug

* add interpolate gpu kernel

* fix unit test error

* remove raw kernels

* add cuda kernel impl

* add infermeta

* recover accidentally deleted kernels in interpolate op

* fix grad x_grad name error

* remove interpolate_v2_op.h

* rm unused codes

* fix xpu build error

* fix build error

* fix namespace error

* add register header for nup

* fix infermeta error

* modify by review

* add the missing args in test_trt_convert_nearest_interp_v2

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

* replace prefix pt by pd

* replace added kernel

* revert util change

* pd kernel to phi

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* add multi input for infer_shape

* support multi output for infershape

* fix split bug

* fix bug of concat

* support vector<MetaTensor*> in infrt

* fix bug

* modify infershape by args_def

* add optional type for infermate

* add optional type for infermate

* add optional type for infermate

* support scalar type

* change OptionalInputAt function to none template

* support phi::DataType

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* add copy_to wrapped infermeta

* test=allcases

* test=allcases

* test=allcases

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* add attr support for infershape

* add unittest for coverage

* add unittest for coverage

* polish unittest detail

* fix windows test failed

* add has_attr for arg map context

* skip useless attr now

* skip attr if not exists

* fix typo

* generate wrapped_infer_meta

* add test for wrapped_infer_meta

* Update test_meta_fn_utils.cc

* change the dir of generated file
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenwhpro@163.com>

* fix code conflict

* generate inter_meta register

* clear cache

* just try

* add sign c++ api

* polish some code

* change unary infermeta

* change other infermeta

* change all infermeta format

* resolve conflit

* fix test failed

* resolve reshape conflit

* fix compile failed

* adapt auto api gen

* fix reshape failed

* fix concat failed

* resolve conflict

* open header for custom kernel

* add core utils

* tidy core code

* tify header

* tidy include

* tidy namespace

* resolve conflit

* fix unittest and coverage

* remove platform using

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix digamma namespace error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* polish details

* add place for lib storage

* add infermeta registry

* add infermeta registry

* add unittest

* polish details

* infermeta context init design

* support infermeta called in fluid op

* add hasattr and attr methods

* add dygraah GetVarPtrs support

* rename arg_map_context to arg_map_utils

* add registry for arg map func

* resolve conflit

* refactor op utils design

* polish meta config

* fix details

* remove hasattr method

* resolve conflit

* revert cmake order change

* revert some change

* change init pos

* fix compile faileed

* fix typo

* fix inference failed

* fix windows ccompile failed

* polish format
Co-authored-by: NWang Huan <wanghuan29@baidu.com>

* add infermeta utils for register infermeta

* polish license format