* Performance optimize

* Optimize GetAllocator, RWLock and ProcessUnfreedAllocation

* Remove test file

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* Support cuda graph in StreamSafeCudaAllocator

* Fix CI error

* Arrange AllocatorFacade

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI error

* Fix ROCM Compile error

* Fix ROCM Compile error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Support allocate_from in Tensor and allocate_data in Context

* fix #ifdef CUDA

* fix cycle depends

* fix test_xxx_dev_api failed

* fix windows compiling error

* fix unittest

* modify into PImpl

* fix selected rows

* add TODO comment

* refine interface according reviewer

* fix reshape move storage error

* remove needless set type

* alloc tensor by shared storage

* Utilize StreamSafeCUDAAllocator to support fast GC in new executor

* Fix compile error for Windows and ROCm

* Fix compile error for Windows

* Modify UT stream_safe_cuda_alloc_test

* Modify UT stream_safe_cuda_alloc_test

* Rewrite fast GC

* Rewrite fast GC

* Fix compile error for BOOST_GET_CONST

* Fix compile error for BOOST_GET_CONST

* Changes default stream for StreamSafeCUDAAllocator

* Fix a small CI error

* Remove some redundant code

* Fix conflict

* Fix compile error for ROCm

* Fix Windoes CI error

* Fix CI error

* Remove some unnecessary code

* Fix CI error

* Add UT for fast GC

* Fix CI error

* add device-agnostic stream class

* add stream.h

* fix ut

* fix cpu compile

* Use RWLock in GetAllocator

* Fix CI error
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nzhiqiu <chenqiuliang@baidu.com>

* add device-agnostic stream class

* add stream.h

* fix ut

* fix cpu compile

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update

* Support multi-stream allocation for CUDA place

* Do not notify the retrying from other streams when free CUDA allocation

* Fix compile error for CPU

* Fix compile error for HIP

* Release memory for StreamSafeCUDAAllocaRetry in malloc_test

* Add FLAGS_use_stream_safe_cuda_allocator

* Fix CI error for 'set_tests_properties'

* Invalidate stream safe CUDA allocator for naive_best_fit and thread_local strategy

* Performance improvement: insert allocation pair to outstanding_events_map when free but not alloc; replace recursive_mutex with SpinLock

* FLAGS priority changes: FLAGS_use_system_allocator > FLAGS_use_stream_safe_cuda_allocator

* Performance improvement: directly delete allocation when the recorded_streams is empty in FreeImpl of StreamSafeCUDAAllocator

* Add UT for alloc interface

* Changes multi-stream interface; move retry code from AllocatorFacadePrivate to StreamSafeCUDAAllocator

* add basic support for CUDA Graph

* fix ci compile error

* fix LOG print, fix windows CI

* follow comments and update

* small fix for default ctor

* fix rocm compile error

* fix CPU compile error

* remove attribute in Allocator::Allocate, test=develop

* fix travis ci error, test=develop

Use OO style to rewrite memory allocation.