【PRIM】Support use operator's output metadata info  in constructing static backward composite (#50043)

* [prim] support custom target_gradients

* support infershape after append one gradop

* [prim] add simple net test

* fix test_loop segment fault bug

* [prim] fix infer shape segment fault bug when output of grad_op_desc is empty

* Fix param and out grad names in dy2st for high order grad

* rm legacy unittest part5

* add custom op

* isort all files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* update config

* re-blacken python code

* temporarily disable date and diff_py_file

* skip a format

* [CodeStyle][py2] remove `compat` module (to_bytes)

* remove some unused imports

* clean up to_bytes definition and unittests

* Revert "clean up to_bytes definition and unittests"

This reverts commit e726539e1768172a411ff60e63fab82f164343cf.

* use `b` prefix instead of `encode()`

* add interpretercore

* refine backward program id

* add code

* refine program

* refine code

* create forward/backward_program by prog2graph2prog method

* test, do not care

* refine code

* refine code

* refine code

* test, do not care

* add interpretorcore

* add scope

* refine scope create method

* add jit for new_exe

* solve conflict

* delete unused code

* polish code

* polish code

* refine scope in inplace

* refine for datatransfer

* refine _rebuild_from_desc

* refine control eager deletion attr

* refine used_for_jit

* refine jit for infer

* op size0 use ori program

* polish code

* refine jit

* refine run_program_op ut

* refine inplace

* refine control

* refine graph helper

* refine control

* refine inplace

* refine buffer_share_inplace_pass

* polish code

* polish code

* refine usage for compilerProgram

* refine control

* test

* test core cache

* refine code

* refine io.py

* increase test_seq2seq timeout

* refine convert program

* refine interpretercore_cache release

* delete buildinplace

* refine partial_program && io

* refine code for io

* test

* test

* test

[CodeStyle] use np.testing.assert_array_equal instead of self.assertTrue(np.array_equal(...)) (#44947)

* automatically fix

* update comments

* numpy -> np

* self.assertEqual(..., True)

* wrong usage (err_msg=True)

这不是修复导致的错误，这些是原来 `self.assertTrue(..., True)`
的错误用法，因此在修复后将其认为位置参数 `err_msg`

* some missing fix

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* support CUDAGraph for partial graph

* add ut

* fix ci

* fix ut again because of eager mode

* fix kunlun ci

* fix win ci

* refactor eager flags

* fix flags error when we switch from eager to dygraph

* fix ci problem

* fix ci

* fix ci

* merge develop and fix code style

* merge develop and fix code style

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* merge develop

* adapt run_program OP for eager

* fix program_id

* refine code

* fix test