* [cherry-pick2.3]fix compile bug of windows cuda11.5 (#41464)

cherry-pick

fix compile bug of windows cuda11.5 #41433

* fix bug of missing boost when compile cache.cc (#41449)

【chery-pick #41430】fix bug of random compile failure, due to incorrect compile order of dependencies

* Fix eager try catch (#41438) (#41477)

[Cherry-Pick]Fix eager try catch (#41438)

* Cherry-pick-PR41407, fix device_id bug for final_state op in multiprocess testcase (#41407) (#41475)

Cherry-pick PR #41407

* [BugFix] Add error hint for one_hot gpu version (#41335) (#41495)

* add one_hot gpu hint

* move allow_out_of_range judgement

* delete useless unittest

* fix bugs of reshape double grad infermeta (#41459) (#41493)

* [cherrypick-2.3] modify infer gpu memory strategy (#41427), remove cudnn_deterministic=True (#41341)  (#41491)
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* [Cherry-pick][ROCm] fix dcu error in device event base, test=develop (#41523)

Cherry-pick of #41521

* [Cherry-Pick]Cherry pick PR41200, PR41474, PR41382 (#41509)

* Use `self`as a parameter of _hash_with_id function to avoid error caused by hash_id reuse (#41200)

* Add fill_constant_batch_size YAML and UT (#41474)

* Switch some dy2st UT to eager mode (#41382)

* Sitch some dy2st UT to eager mode

* Fix test_lstm and remove test_transformer

* Run test_resnet_v2 in old dy mode

* Unittest recover (#41431)

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix fleet bind

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix gpups wrapper

* remove Push/Pull/Load/Save with context in client and wrapper base class

* fix

* fix

* remove some interface

* fix

* remove

* code style

* recover

* fix

* remove code unused

* remove some unused table & accessor & CommonDenseTable => MemoryDenseTable

* fix

* fix

* fix

* recover

* remove unused code

* recover unittest

* fix

* remove

* fix

* remove code unuseful

* remove

* fix

* recover

* remove
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* add ssd sparse table

* fix

* add cache shuffle

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* add unit test

* fix
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* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix fleet bind

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix gpups wrapper

* remove Push/Pull/Load/Save with context in client and wrapper base class

* fix

* fix
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* fix benchmark and communicator config

* fix bugs of the_one_ps

* multi program and fix bug in optimizer

* multi program in the_one_ps

* public commcontext

* ps optimizer multi programs

* cvm & datanorm backend

* fix dim

* fix unittest

* fix

* the one ps merge

* remove comm

* add DownpourLiteWorker

* all

* fix

* fix

* device worker downpour lite

* fix

* fix bug in global shuffle

* save inference model

* fix & add log

* fix

* remove log

* fix

* fix save summary

* fix

* fix pscore

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* remove logs

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* add some comments

* fix
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* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Fixed example code failure

* Polished function names, removed duplicated forward declarations

* support ssd in PsCore

* remove log

* remove bz2

* defalut value

* code style

* parse table class

* code style

* add define

Change-Id: Ie35a09772e46f7d90cb68ca82c1d18b9201d1abe

* large scale kv store optimize

Change-Id: I582cc661afdaa20749ec7493eae1b88c32b967f7

* replace std::unorded_map with roundrobin map

Change-Id: I48ee0efef38853876c92d982cdfcac6603c52c88

* remove license

* fix cpp lint

Change-Id: Ia21fafa65adc09bb9094f7dbc987e31d5af2686e

* add PullSparseValue for pull sparse

* fix bug for PullSparseValue

* add test mode in lookuptable

* revert API change

* add comment for is_training

* test=develop, save/load, shrink
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* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* add trainers for pserver

Change-Id: I1a75793ec81ce126d07f4c47cae09b95d530bbc8

* add save tensor support
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* add tensor table

* add service, remove ut on mac

* fix heter_profiler & add heter stop method

* fix code style

* ps gpu transpile

* ps gpu

* remove op

* gps trainer

* local ps

* add macro

* HeterBox

* def cuda

* tab

* code style

* style

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* add xpu in heter mode
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* BOOST_CONST_GET; PADDLE_THROW
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* refine
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* refine
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* refine
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* refine code
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* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* add heter ps mode

* code style
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* add with_pslib
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* unitest
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* test monitor
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* prepare trainer
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* code style
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* add timeout and http store in communication, add revert and confirm in fleet
* test=develop

* add save with prefix
* test=develop

* add fleet pslib pull and push sparse op and push dense op
* test=develop

* add clear_one_table
* test=develop

* update

* update test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update run demo test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update style test=develop

* update style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* add dataset unittest test=develop

* update test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* udpate style for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* fix format test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* add collective communication library in fleet to replace mpi
* test=develop

* print table stat
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* notes
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* notes
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* general table

* add sparse table
test=develop

* no cvm
test=develop

* add no_cvm
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* add note
test=develop

* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* add key of optimizer
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* solve pslib stop core
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* barrier
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* add notes
test=develop

* general table

* add sparse table
test=develop

* no cvm
test=develop

* add no_cvm
test=develop

* add note
test=develop

* code style
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* code style
test=develop

* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* add key of optimizer
test=develop

* fix cache table bug
* add save_paddle_inference_model
* fix hdfs util bug
* test=develop

* copy some feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all dense params from one table to another
* copy some local vars to other local vars

* no longer need to define all embedding layers (no one less) of all slots in each program. make trainer_param repeated in ps.proto.
* add find_distributed_lookup_table_grads instead of hard code GRAD
* support embedding stop gradient. push sparse has error before fix this.* 
* fix fill sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding. each slot's embedding in a sparse table should be used in all training programs before fix this.
* fix pull sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* fix collect feasign label info, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* support when there are multi sparse tables in one or multi training programs, each program can pull/push its own related sparse tables instead of all sparse tables.
* test=develop

* support change shuffle thread num
* support change train thread num
* fix receive shuffle data of each channel
* data norm stop gradient
* add check thread_tensor type and root_tensor type when merge metric
* remove sleep in shuffle, add config
* add config of pslib client to client communication
* fix xbox str
* add data norm op testcase
* add flush in trainer finalize

* support preload thread
* sleep before fleet wrapper exit for pslib core dump
* optimize hdfs log
* fix master+patch bug

* add get_last_save_xbox_base/get_last_save_xbox
* fix fleet_util bug of load paddle model
* add doc string in fleet api

add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* fix error

* fix error

* fix style for ci

* fix for comments

* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix stylr

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* change non-const reference to pointer

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style  test=develop

* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop