[Paddle-Inference] support preln_ernie: add preln_embedding_eltwise_layernorm_fuse_pass, preln_skip_layernorm_fuse_pass (#39508)

* support preln_ernie

* support preln_ernie

* support npu weight unified H2D copy

* remove redundant variable

* move dynload from fluid to pten.

* fix ci compile

* fix windows ci compile.

* update

* update

* fix compile error

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

* add trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang op

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* test cast add trt version >=7 skip

* add Paddle Trt config: with_interleaved

* dynamic shape clone supported

* add ipu_inference

* resovle commments

* resolve comments

* add EnableIpu introduction

* rm line

* restore npu update

* add ernie and resnet50 test

* fix copyright time
Co-authored-by: Nyaozhixin <522190855@qq.com>

* multithread_memory_optimize

* optimize cache-key by replace GraphToProgram to Dot string

* fix compile failure bug

* fix build error of gtest dependency, test=develop

* update when WITH_TESTING is OFF, test=develop

* modify logic

* test=allcase

* test=document_fix

* add trt runtime version check

* use different wrap, and change to major version check

* Add dlnne engine runtime

* Fix log

* Remove <const_cast> and remove unrelated modify with dlnne, +clang-format

* Fix CMakeList format error

* Add copyright message

* Fix dlnne CMakeList.txt

* Add some paddlepaddle_pass to support more networks

* Fix some format bug

* delete include framework.pb.h

* fix error

* fix tensorrt output varible reshape

* move padding shape x 1 x 1 in ernie to qkv and fc

* update layer name

* fix softmax when input is dynamic, fc not padding any more

* fix varlen

* move fc x_dim assert to op_teller

* fix engine key in trt int8 calibration

* fix unit test

* support trt serialize when load model from memory

* delete conv_bn_fuse_pass before tensorrt, with which trt serialize engine id is not stable

* Revert "delete conv_bn_fuse_pass before tensorrt, with which trt serialize engine id is not stable"

performance degradation, fix in the future

This reverts commit fa6cd17e60b15df351efda379ddd00e9e9c1fea9.

* add delete conv_bn

* delete path when delete_cache_files

* update paddle_fluid.so to paddle_inference.so

* Add conv transpose BF16

* Share function GetWeightsTz

* Adjust to review and fix op compatibility

* Add bias to unique handler name

* Remove errors related to paddle enforce

* Add conv2d_transpose to bf16 list and kernel refator

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* add dla

* add dla done

* add python api
Co-authored-by: Nshangzhizhou <root@szth-rp-fanyi-opera49.szth.baidu.com>