* [CustomKernel] add capi eager mode support

* add ut

* add capi test

* [CustomKernel] add custom kernel c api

* update

* update

* fix unable to export capi
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* rename pten to phi

* fix infrt compile failed

* resolve conflict

* [PluggableDevice]custom kernel to pten core structs

* mod extension.h for custom op

* compatible python for CI

* support custom context

* refactor to pten

* fix windows and ut

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed