[Fluid Clean]move inplace_apis_indygraph_only from paddle.flud.dygraph.inplace_utils to paddle.utils (#48744)

* move inplace_apis_indygraph_only from paddle.flud.dygraph.inplace_utils to paddle.utils

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify conflict

* modify static-check ci error

* fix conflict

* modify failed tests

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix pool2d examples

* modify conflict

* fix failed tests

* fix conflict

* fix failed tests

* modfiy problem of deleting pool2d

* update config

* re-blacken python code

* temporarily disable date and diff_py_file

* skip a format

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* refactor eager flags

* fix flags error when we switch from eager to dygraph

* fix ci problem

* fix ci

* fix ci

* merge develop and fix code style

* merge develop and fix code style

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* merge develop

* cache core.ops, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add relu6_ hardsigmoid_ leaky_relu_ Inplace APIs

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy_ Inplace API

* add clip_ scale_ add_ subtract_ Inplace APIs

* add wlist

* fix parameter of scale api

* add add_n_ Inplace API and remove log_ Inplace API

* fix elementwise_add_ and elementwise_sub_ broadcast problem

* elementwise inplace api give error message before run the op

* use broadcast_shape in elementwise inplace op

* add 8 inplace apis that is auto generated

* add unittest for all inplace apis

* add decorator for inplace apis in static mode

* fix windows blas fail of exp inplace api, change array_equal to allclose

* add flatten inplace api

* add flatten unittest

* fix flatten unittest

* add decorator

* fix grad.numpy in test_pylayer_op

* unsupport softmax_with_cross_entropy_

* add test_inplace_softmax_with_cross_entropy to static_mode_white_list

* delete __all__ in inplace_utils

* delete activation inplace function and add Tensor.inplace_func

* change paddle.inplace_ to Tensor.inplace_

* fix little problem

* add paddle in inplace_utils