* oneps (3/4)
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* rename communicator meet->BatchesCounter

* fix parame recv for sparse

* geo sparse init from pserver

* optimize init from pserver

* add large scale optimizer fuse(SGD/ADAM)

* rectification init_worker and exe.run startup program

* default open dygraph mode

* fix CI-Mac

* fix Mac-CI other unittest file

* fix CI-Py3

* fix test_communicator_geo and test_buffer_shared_memory_reuse_pass

* add enable_static to fix CI-Py3

* add enable_static to fix CI-coverage

* delete try except

Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server