* record memory and op supplement info

* update

* update

* fix a bug

* fix memory recording

* fix a bug

* update

* update

* fix a bug

* update

* fix a bug

* fix a bug

* fix a bug

* Revert "fix a bug"

This reverts commit c1d4df52762ba9ae7c7e27cd2ba4fc3a7ed9c7a5.

* fix a bug

* fix format

* fix

* Add pinned memory to HostMemoryStats

* Add macro for WrapStatAllocator

* Fix CI errors

* Support memory stats for CPU

* Add UTs

* Fix typos

* Fix typos

Add new APIs for GPU memory monitoring (max_memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved, memory_allocated, memory_reserved) (#38657)

* Add new API memory_reserved

* Add memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved and max_memory_allocater

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI error

* Enhance UT

* Add FLAGS_memory_stats_opt

* Add STATS macro functions

* Add StatAllocator

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* Fix CI errors