* the one ps proto (#41659)

* the one ps proto

* the one ps proto

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix windows ci

* fix windows ci

* add dependency

* add dependency

* fix bug of ps_py_proto cant find path for the folder not created (#41793)
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* fix cmake. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix dep for graphs_ps_gpu. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* add processgroup_nccl

* add tcp_socket and tcp_store

* Revert "Revert "[PsCore] optimize performance of large kv (#32535)" (#32599)"

This reverts commit 809ac036.

* brpc dep

* add index_dataset and index_sampler for tree-based model

* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* oneps (3/4)
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* 　add heter box

* add trainer, worker, wrapper...

* format

* for ci

* format

* remove boost get

* boost & copyright

* rename

* 　rename

* format

* format

* format
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* add service, remove ut on mac

* fix heter_profiler & add heter stop method

* fix code style

* add ps table

Change-Id: I468a04bd071d21ff52654926fcf4d5f3da19e178