Improve the tool for checking nan and inf, and support to compute the max, min and mean of output tensor. (#47095)

* Improve the tool for checking nan and inf, and support to compute the max, min and mean of output tensor.

* Add a FLAGS to control whether abort when meets inf/nan and polish codes.

* Fix unittest.

* Change the computing of mean.

* make all cpp tests dynamic linked to libpaddle.so

* add comments

* keep old cc_test for some tests

* fix some ut

* make some ut use cc_test_old

* fix typos and fit for win32

* fix lib path

* fix some tests

* skip lite test

* fit for rocm

* fit for cinn

* fit for mac

* fit for win32

* skip inference ut

* skip  windows

* fix coverage

* remove using lodtensor part2

* resolve code format error

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* replace added frameworrk tensor

* namespace modify

* update by comment

* skip ReplaceAllReduceOp in GraphtoBlock when nccl_ctxs_ is nullptr

* update ut

* test_dist_allreduce_op failed

* fix test_dist_allreduce_op

* add ut

* fix nccl cpu compile

* fix

* remove class ScopeBase

* reopen test

* [Zero-Dim] support input 0D Tensor for unary api

* fix CI

* remove using lodtensor part1

* polish history code format

* remove needless using tensor

* remove needless using tensor

* resolve conflict

* replace tensor using

* fix format error

* revert needless changing

* fix rocm and npu compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* resolve conflict

* fix wrong eigen header include

* fix complie bug

* fix nan_inf_utils_detail

* fix resource_manager

* fix conv_miopen_helper

* add operator<< for BuildStrategy

* add fake_coalesce

* fit allreduce mode for new_exe

* remove dubeg code

* follow comments

* using mkldnn

* using with mkldnn macro

* fix use mkldnn

* refine cmake of framework

* add deps for dense tensor

* fix deps

* remove alloc(ctx)

* add depends on mkldnn

* add del dropout op pass to jit pe enigne

* add delete dropout test

* add runtime config in phi

* add runtime attr for op desc and op

* fix no proto error

* adjust opdesc set_attr impl

* try to remove conv_op extra attrs

* add init runtime attr map

* change extra header path

* fix runtime_attr

* fix trace_op

* fix bug of pass

* fix merge conflict

* fix dygraph attrs

* fix bug of pass

* fix dygraph bug

* fix unittest module

* delete extra attr default

* fix dropout kernel

* polish code

* fix extra output of instance_norm

* fix merge confilct

* fix op_desc bug

* add extra attr in yaml for conv3d_transpose

* don't remove extra input and output

* fix save_inference_model

* fix bug of batch_norm

* revert some change

* polish log

* polish code

* add code comment
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>

* update brpc version;test=develop

* change to async mode for xpu multi-card training in static graph mode

* minor bugfix

* irrelevant. move to another pr

* move change to other pr

* fix stream issue

* fix 'stream not meet with current context' error

* fix branch diverge, test=kunlun

* clean tensor.h

* fix gather_nd

* remove cudaDeviceContext

* remove more template

* fix rocm compile

* remove alias name CUDADeviceContext

* fix compile

* fix tests

* revert changes

* remove cudaDeviceContext

* remove more template

* fix rocm compile

* Set more attrs in ReplaceScaleLossGradOp

* Fix typos

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* Rename BOOST_GET macros

* Fix conflicts

* fix init()

* delete test_device_context

* replace CPUDeviceContext with CPUContext

* fix test_scalar

* remove dot_op.cc

* fix compile

* Remove boost::variant for FetchResultType

* Fix pybind errors

* boost::variant -> paddle::variant

* boost::variant.apply_visit -> paddle::visit

* Update pybind_boost_hraders.h

* Fix CINN compilation errors

* Revert FetchResultType

* Refactor DeviceContextPool

* Adjust header file order

* support CUDAGraph for partial graph

* add ut

* fix ci

* fix ut again because of eager mode

* fix kunlun ci

* fix win ci

* add nan_inf_utils for eager

* support check nan and inf

* add unittest for coverage

* Profile Executors

* update

* fix ut

* fix names

* update

* update