* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* add set_not_owned function for graph

* add scope set. test=develop

* add scope_ptr enforce not null before setting.test=develop

* add MKL-DNN placement pass

This patch also refactors conv+bn (includes changes from PR
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/13926)
updated to use the mkldnn-placement-pass.

test=develop

* remove redundant pass list

* add comment on the default first pass

* fix test for conv+relu mkldnn fuse