Enable to record whether the conv algo is got by exhaustive search to fix autotune cache bug. (#47065)

* optimizer conv alog speed

* code polish

* remove useless code

* fix compile error

* fix cpu compile error

* not use cudnn alog t

* add search cache max number

* polish code

* fix cache test bug

* add groups data format to conv args

* fix cache test bug

* fix cudnn_deterministic bug

* fix test switch auto tune bug

* fix test swith autotune bug;

* fix conv cache bug

* fix cache test error

* fix cache test bug

* fix windows mac compile error

* fix workspace search error

* update cudnn cache

* fix cache test bug; test=develop

* fix autotune swith test error

* polish code

* oplish code

resort .cu headers, set clang-format not sort include block and consider .cu as main source file (#43633)

* fix depthwise conv yaml error

* fix depthwise conv double grad error

* add conv3d yaml

* add conv3d_grad, conv3d_double_grad

* add final_state_conv3d test case

* add conv3d double test case

* add depthwise_conv2d grad yaml

* add depthwise_conv2d double grad test case

* modify the order of args

* add depthwise_conv2d_grad_grad config

* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled double grad test cases in eager_mode for test_imperative_double_grad

* Fixed elementwise issue

* Addressed CI failures

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_triple_grad test cases under eager_mode

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_autograd_functional_dynamic.py under eager mode

* Enabled more test cases

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_star_gan_with_gradient_penalty.py under eager mode

* Adjusted test_imperative_star_gan_with_gradient_penalty.py

* Using the maximum workspace_size of all alogirhms to limit the workspace size in exhaustive search mode.

* Use the system cudaMalloc and cudaFree to allocate workspace during searching.

* Enable switch of two kind of workspace setting methods.
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

* move mutable_data to context alloc

* move mutable_data to context alloc

* remvoe duplicate code

* remove gpudnn suffix & polish cmake

* fix typo

* move conv to pten

* move conv to pten; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add conv cudnn impl; test=develop

* update

* update operator; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* move operator and prepared_operator to develop; test=develop

* resolve conflict; test=develop

* remove useless code;test=develop

* add depency ; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add sig.cc ; test=develop

* fix use_op error; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* add conv3d register; test=develop

* fix star gan and conv_nn_grad test failed; test=develop

* add header; test=develop

* manul to recover to develop;

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* remove useless code

* fix bug;

* remove conv2d_cudnn; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* fix cpu rocm compile bugs; test=develop

* fix blas error; test=develop

* fix compile bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows error; test=develop

* resolve confilct; test=develop