add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

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* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

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* change non-const reference to pointer

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* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop

* sequnce mask support max length tensor input; test=develop

* add rnn_impl.py; test=develop

* add basic gru lstm unittest; test=develop

* fix api spec; test=develop

* fix sequence_mask op bug;
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* change +-*x to elmentwise_op; test=develop

* add mkl flag; test=develop

* fix rnn impl bug; test=develop

* update api spec; test=develop

* fix doc bug; test=develop

* fix lstm bugs; test=develop

* Enhance fused_elementwise_activation op.
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* Move the api fused_elementwise_activation to contrib.
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* Add including files.
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* Add the support of sigmoid in fused_elementwise_activetion op.

* Update API.spec.
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