Fix the bug where the device memory address appears in abs_grad kernel fallback to CPU. test=kunlun (#47186)

* remove invoke yaml

* fix ci bugs

* move sum

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix set_lod bugs

* fix infershape bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci unittest bug

* fix ci bugs

* perfect code

* update code according comment

* add unittest

* fix ci bugs

* support selected_rows kernel for multiply in dygraph

* refine SetKernelOutput

* remove some custom_impl api and make them generated by yaml completely

* delete useless code

* fix adamw bug

* fix infermeta

* revert adamw

* polish code

* fix bug

* support auto fallback to  cpu kernel for cusom device

* fix some problem of kernel fallback

* support complexd selected_rows kernel in yaml

* support configuring optimizer api in yaml

* fix data transform bug

* add conv3d yaml

* add conv3d_grad, conv3d_double_grad

* add final_state_conv3d test case

* add conv3d double test case

* add depthwise_conv2d grad yaml

* add depthwise_conv2d double grad test case

* modify the order of args

* add depthwise_conv2d_grad_grad config

* add embedding yaml

* fix infermeta bug

* fix bug of selected_rows infer_meta

* fix selected_rows

* add unittest

* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* remove storage

* add glog include

* add glog include

* add glog include

* change the output format of C++ backward api

* fix merge conflict

* fix sparse api code auto-gen

* fix eager_gen bug

* fix bug of output is null

* fix bug of conv2d_grad_impl

* fix optional grad

* fix bug of eager-gen double_grad

* fix bug

* fix multiply_double_grad bug

* remove node pruning

* [Eager] Support final_state_adam when argument grad (position 1) is selected_rows

* Remove needless code

* Add adam_dense_param_sparse_grad kernel

* add adamw yaml

* fix test case error

* make the name of weight and bias in linear1 and linear2 to be constant

* support construct scalar using non-cpu tensor

* fix bugs when run unittest

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when move copy

* perfect unit test

* perfect unittest

* update according to comment

* add target dependency

* deal with conflict

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix unit test bugs

* add sgd yaml

* change python api

* open eager mode in sgd

* fix bug

This reverts commit fe214af2.

* support construct scalar using non-cpu tensor

* fix bugs when run unittest

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when move copy

* perfect unit test

* perfect unittest

* update according to comment

* add target dependency

* add adam yaml

* add adam final_state api

* add adam_impl

* support setting vector out size in yaml

* support setting size of vector<tensor> for out in yaml

* add multi_dot,maxout,multiplex yaml

* add code converage

* add unbind yaml

* fix unittest

* add real and imag yaml

* add roi_align and roi_pool yaml

* add qr yaml

* add psroi_pool yaml

* fix bug

* fix param bug of psroi_pool

* fix infrt problem

* fix merge bug

* update

* add conv yaml

* add backward

* remove useless code

* fix bug

* fix bug

* revert fluid dygraph conv2d

* remove useless infermeta function

* fix meta fn deluplicat error

* conv using custom impl

* remove amp include

* fix bug

* use cudnn = true

* fix test mkldnn caching bug

* move yaml

* add momentum yaml

* delete code

* delete some code

* add meshgrid backward

* delete code

* fix compile bugs

* add stack yaml

* add stack yaml

* add stack yaml

* add no_need_buffer

* refine no_need_buffer declare

* remove original grad infershape

* revert stack op

* update

* fix bug

* add concat_grad kernel

* fix error

* remove comment code

* fix outs nullptr error

* change to phi header

* add concat_grad declare for standalone_executor_test

* add concat_grad yaml

* add concat api

* fix test concat op error

* fix test concat op error

* add add_n infermeta

* forward run success

* add add_n grad yaml

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

* support intermediate for saprse api

* close intermediate in yaml

* fix dygraph_api dep for eager

* replace Backend by Place in C++ API

* fix left code

* fix test_to_api bug