* [XPU] update xpu cmake to 1016. test=kunlun

* fix special case of transpose op. test=kunlun

* simplify conv_mkldnn op registration

* remove custom type value in conv grad op

* solve transpose2, follow #22402

* fix CI cmake

* update REGISTER_OP_KERNEL of transpose2

* [XPU] update xpu cmake to 0923. test=kunlun

* [XPU] update xpu cmake to 0928. test=kunlun

* fix concat bug

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* gelu fwd

* sort activations

* gelu gradient

* remove unused macros

* merge conflicts

* fix merge conflicts

* remove extra contraint from gelu op

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

* .

* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

* .

* .

* fix gloo compile warning

* merge python lib
* Update third_party.cmake
* Update CMakeLists.txt

* [XPU] update xdnn to 0906. test=kunlun

* [XPU] update xdnn to 0907. test=kunlun

* [Phi] fix phi compile option for jetson

* Update phi.cmake

* update brpc version;test=develop

* update xccl lib

* change user name to pass cla check

* [XPU] add some collective ops. test=kunlun

* use XPUOpTestWrapper. test=kunlun

* skip kl1 for collective ops. fix typo: deivce -> device. test=kunlun

* fix bug of adaptive pool2d_grad, *test=kunlun

* fix bug of adaptive pool2d_grad, *test=kunlun

* fix bug of adaptive pool2d_grad, *test=kunlun

* move mkldnn activation kernel

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix windows compile bugs

* mkldnn unittest fix

* change mutable to alloc

* fix unittest bugs

* modify code according comment

* add merged_momentum *test=kunlun

* add merged_momentum *test=kunlun

* add fp16 to merged_momentum,*test=kunlun

* c++ property deserialization

* fix for comment

* more error info

* fix exception info

* fix ci

* fix compile

* fix layer test ci

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* support ninja

* fix mkldnn on windows

* fix mkldnn on windows up1

* up2

* up3

* fix gflags

* BUILD_BYPRODUCTS_OPTION -> BUILD_BYPRODUCTS_ARGS

* use CMAKE_COMMAND

* up x