* support FP16 for more ops

* add amp list tests

* refine reduce_mean_grad

* fix OP benchmark ci

* fix fp16 reduce_mean

* updat ut, but still have some problems

* remove mean/reduce_mean fp16 kernel

* update ops's unittest of elementwise_pow, elementwise_max, elementwise_min, scale and sqrt
1. update elementwise_pow, elementwise_max and scale's unitests with input data type (float32 -> float64)
2. fix bug that the elementwise_pow doesn't meet threshold requirements with tackling float64 data
3. remove sqrt from op_accuracy_white_list.py
4. update the unittests of elementwise_pow, elementwise_max and elementwise_min ops that their input data shape over 100
5. test=develop

* modify the writing style according suggestions
test=develop

test=develop

sequence_unpad, expand, pad, pad_constant_like,
norm, bilinear_tensor_product, flatten2, im2sequence,
unpool, cos_sim, strided_slice, flatten, elementwise_min,
abs, acos

test=develop

elementwise broadcast function enhancement

Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.

* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment