* [cherry-pick2.3]fix compile bug of windows cuda11.5 (#41464)

cherry-pick

fix compile bug of windows cuda11.5 #41433

* fix bug of missing boost when compile cache.cc (#41449)

【chery-pick #41430】fix bug of random compile failure, due to incorrect compile order of dependencies

* Fix eager try catch (#41438) (#41477)

[Cherry-Pick]Fix eager try catch (#41438)

* Cherry-pick-PR41407, fix device_id bug for final_state op in multiprocess testcase (#41407) (#41475)

Cherry-pick PR #41407

* [BugFix] Add error hint for one_hot gpu version (#41335) (#41495)

* add one_hot gpu hint

* move allow_out_of_range judgement

* delete useless unittest

* fix bugs of reshape double grad infermeta (#41459) (#41493)

* [cherrypick-2.3] modify infer gpu memory strategy (#41427), remove cudnn_deterministic=True (#41341)  (#41491)
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* [Cherry-pick][ROCm] fix dcu error in device event base, test=develop (#41523)

Cherry-pick of #41521

* [Cherry-Pick]Cherry pick PR41200, PR41474, PR41382 (#41509)

* Use `self`as a parameter of _hash_with_id function to avoid error caused by hash_id reuse (#41200)

* Add fill_constant_batch_size YAML and UT (#41474)

* Switch some dy2st UT to eager mode (#41382)

* Sitch some dy2st UT to eager mode

* Fix test_lstm and remove test_transformer

* Run test_resnet_v2 in old dy mode

* Unittest recover (#41431)

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix fleet bind

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix gpups wrapper

* remove Push/Pull/Load/Save with context in client and wrapper base class

* fix

* fix

* remove some interface

* fix

* remove

* code style

* recover

* fix

* remove code unused

* remove some unused table & accessor & CommonDenseTable => MemoryDenseTable

* fix

* fix

* fix

* recover

* remove unused code

* recover unittest

* fix

* remove

* fix

* remove code unuseful

* remove

* fix

* recover

* remove
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* add ssd sparse table

* fix

* add cache shuffle

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* add unit test

* fix
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