* Support multi-stream allocation for CUDA place

* Do not notify the retrying from other streams when free CUDA allocation

* Fix compile error for CPU

* Fix compile error for HIP

* Release memory for StreamSafeCUDAAllocaRetry in malloc_test

* Add FLAGS_use_stream_safe_cuda_allocator

* Fix CI error for 'set_tests_properties'

* Invalidate stream safe CUDA allocator for naive_best_fit and thread_local strategy

* Performance improvement: insert allocation pair to outstanding_events_map when free but not alloc; replace recursive_mutex with SpinLock

* FLAGS priority changes: FLAGS_use_system_allocator > FLAGS_use_stream_safe_cuda_allocator

* Performance improvement: directly delete allocation when the recorded_streams is empty in FreeImpl of StreamSafeCUDAAllocator

* Add UT for alloc interface

* Changes multi-stream interface; move retry code from AllocatorFacadePrivate to StreamSafeCUDAAllocator